Sleeping IssuesStruggles

New norm is waking up at 3 am one to twice a week

When we first started being concern JB was waking up 1-4 times a night between the hours of 2-4 and staying up for 3-4 hours. So if he was up at 2am he will cry till 5ish 6am or if he was up at 3am he would cry till 6ish 7. We use to let him sleep in on bad nights and just do half day for daycare.

After we took him out of that daycare he’s been much better. I think a lot of it is frustration, hunger and lack of sleep and by removing him from daycare we were able to concentrate on satisfying his needs. Anyways he has been doing so well that I forgot what it felt like doing the late night zombie hours. We are starting to notice a new routine, waking up 1-2 times a week at 3ish am and staying up. On the bright side he doesn’t cry for 3-4 hours anymore . he plays for a bit before getting hungry and frustrated. Yes he cries still but not endless crying for hours.

Is it ideal to wake up at 3am and stay up? Hell no. Is it better than him waking up for 3-4 hours of screaming/crying bloody hell? YES YES YES. It’s easy to say yes when you are not the one waking up with him at 3am but I am certain I speak for the husband that he rather our son wakes up 1-2 times a week at 3 am than 1-4 times crying for 3-4 hours.

Funny thing when you look at it from a different perspective. Some may say wow how do you wake up at 3am once or twice a week?  Well, on bad weeks the most we will be is 4 back to back days. When you come from a full week of crying every night at 2-3am this new routine is a walk in the park. Some have it much worse as I have heard parents say their kid sleep 3-5 hours max. I am grateful with what we have even though it is tough. One night at a time.

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